Advice: Why do women bitch so much? My wife is non-stop…

Originally posted September 20, 2000

Why do women bitch so much, my wife is non-stop. As far as I am concerned we have it made. Nice house, good jobs, a great kid, good health. If she doesn't have something to bitch about it seems like she will invent something. Does it ever stop?

  • Bogdan:

    You're probably just not man enough to keep her happy. Try bringing your friends by for a good old-fashioned gangbang - see if that keeps her quiet.

  • Stasiek:

    The short answer: No, it never stops. Often friend, no matter how good things are or no matter how good you are, they'll complain about something. I think it comes down to happiness. If she is unhappy, she'll find shit to whine about. If she's happy, she'll have a better attitude about everything. You should have a real talk with her to see what is up.
    Or maybe she is just one of those people that love to complain about things...and you just got lucky and got to marry her. My condolences.
    Also, theres always divorce.

  • Piotr:

    Is your wife's name Mo? Because everytime you give her something, she probably wants Mo. Explain to her that all she has is not enough, its never gonna get any better, and if she's still unhappy, tell her to hit the bricks. Not every female can live like Alexis on Dynasty.

  • Janek:

    Yes, it does. It stops as soon as you address the real issues.

    The things you mentioned are all well and good, but there is something inside of her that is preventing her from being at peace. She either isn't comfortable discussing it, or you're not allowing her the chance to discuss it.

    Try setting some time aside and having a real conversation. Keep work, the bills, and the kids out of it. Try to really listen and understand. You may have an urge to offer up a solution to everything she mentions, but try to resist. Just listen! Together, you should be able to work through almost anything.

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  1. justin
    Posted August 6, 2012 at 3:20 pm|Permalink

    If she is anything like my wife, it never stops. She has been pre-programed for failure it seems.complaining about everything and anything, bitching, yelling, it just won’t quit. The funny thing is that she will never get her way by demanding, threatening and yelling. However, there is a reason behind everything and I think that reason is how she was raised. Her mom is an argumentative, poor-me, blame everyone else for all the self made problems kinda person and I think that’s where it comes from. My wife will not give up in any dissagreement, she is stubborn and bullheaded and the moment her wrongs are questioned she says she will take my children from should be the other way around. No child should have to listen to non-stop daily yelling, complaining and blaming. Unfortunately she somehow has more rights than me reguardless and there is nothing I can do about it, reinforcing the cycle of distress. I vote for happiness,peace and love and elimination of the over-powering feministic rights allowing bad mothers to have more rights then caring fathers.

  2. Stephen
    Posted August 9, 2012 at 9:49 pm|Permalink

    Well for all the hype, BS, and excuses I’m reading, I can only say the following:
    Women (and some men) bitch because they can get away with it and because they can get away with it, they can get their way more than not.
    Here is the one thing that all men, and women, need to remember.
    You are in a relationship, or married to begin with. Correct?
    Well first find for me the agreement that stated you had to give someone your balls to be with her? Did you actually sign something this stupid? If so, go somewhere else and let the others read on.
    There are only 3 things that can cause a relationship to become a clusterfuck, they are:
    Money. Someone wants yours.
    Children. You have some and they are being held over your head.
    Sex. You don’t get any unless you comply.

    Here are the fixes.
    Money. Don’t spend anything you don’t have in cash on hand and pay off all your bills and live debt free. If you can’t do this. THEN QUIT BITCHING!
    Children. If you wanted them, well you got them. If you were tricked into having them, why did you marry her or continue with the marriage? If you wanted them, SHUT UP, you have them now. If she tricked you into it, then why in Gods name did you stay with her? You stupid?
    Sex. If you are not married then you have no right to assume you should get great sack time with anyone unless you have discussed it. Understood? If you are married then there is a natural right of access to regular sex. If your partner says no and it appears they are using it as a crowbar to get from you what they want or to have control, simply say ‘that’s alright honey, don’t worry about it. I’ll get it taken care of outside the home.” Now you may want to prepare yourself for an argument but that’s happening already if you are not getting regular sex. So be prepared with the ‘right of access’ statement. Don’t get loud, don’t get angry, don’t call them names or humiliate them. Just tell them you have the right to regular sex. If you don’t want to be the person I am having sex with then that’s your choice, not mine. I’m just going to have regular sex, end of story.
    No one has the right to ruin your life over money, children or sex. No one.

  3. David Migner
    Posted January 3, 2014 at 2:18 am|Permalink

    Yea if your wife wont put out you are absolutely entilted to go elsewhere. It is a biological need.
    Men are now under more pressure than ever. The woman want their husband to do as much cooking cleaning shopping and time with the kids. Yea most men like me will love pending time with the kids and alos help out with chores but some woman dont remember that they dont fix the car dishwasher computer pay the bills do the tax returns hold down a fulltime job fix the toaster change the oil . Men u now how endless this list is.
    I think woman are becoming a little too selfish in western cultures. Sure some wives are great but
    Men are just doing way to much to keep their wives happy.
    Its sad how much we are expected to do
    Even the expression be a man is sexist
    None one says be a woman . I it because they dont have the same acoountability. I think western societies are going downhill.
    I want woman to have empowerment and equal rights but it has gone to the other extreme.
    Why are woman instigting divorces much more so than men. Yea there are bums around but it still doesnt explain it. The truth is wman are becoming very demmanding to the point of being selfish. Thtas why men after being divorced are marrying Asian woman who are not subserviant but just respectful.
    A man can only give his all to his wife and children. Its sad taht some woam dont find this enough.

  4. tbreeze
    Posted January 18, 2014 at 8:42 pm|Permalink

    It ends when one or both of you is dead. Lol

  5. Jerry
    Posted February 2, 2015 at 5:21 pm|Permalink

    Women bitch because it works, you get tiered of the bs and do whatever it takes to shut them up!!

  6. L Love
    Posted February 13, 2015 at 9:54 pm|Permalink

    Jordan you sir are an asshole and apparently are single, I feel for you. Women will always complain. I can imagine your mother had a lot to complain about with you as a son. I feel more for you than for her.

  7. Posted June 8, 2015 at 11:32 pm|Permalink

    Doesn’t matter how hard or how much you give them !!! Bogdan nailed It. Only if you have a LOT of friends.

  8. Bs how
    Posted July 31, 2015 at 8:01 pm|Permalink

    There is no hope! That’s what they do. They’re never happy with anything for long. My solution was to go MGTOW.

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