Originally posted September 20, 2000
Why do women bitch so much, my wife is non-stop. As far as I am concerned we have it made. Nice house, good jobs, a great kid, good health. If she doesn't have something to bitch about it seems like she will invent something. Does it ever stop?
You're probably just not man enough to keep her happy. Try bringing your friends by for a good old-fashioned gangbang - see if that keeps her quiet.
The short answer: No, it never stops. Often friend, no matter how good things are or no matter how good you are, they'll complain about something. I think it comes down to happiness. If she is unhappy, she'll find shit to whine about. If she's happy, she'll have a better attitude about everything. You should have a real talk with her to see what is up.
Or maybe she is just one of those people that love to complain about things...and you just got lucky and got to marry her. My condolences.
Also, theres always divorce.
Is your wife's name Mo? Because everytime you give her something, she probably wants Mo. Explain to her that all she has is not enough, its never gonna get any better, and if she's still unhappy, tell her to hit the bricks. Not every female can live like Alexis on Dynasty.
Yes, it does. It stops as soon as you address the real issues.
The things you mentioned are all well and good, but there is something inside of her that is preventing her from being at peace. She either isn't comfortable discussing it, or you're not allowing her the chance to discuss it.
Try setting some time aside and having a real conversation. Keep work, the bills, and the kids out of it. Try to really listen and understand. You may have an urge to offer up a solution to everything she mentions, but try to resist. Just listen! Together, you should be able to work through almost anything.