Originally posted June 18, 2001
What can I do to not make this a production?
My boyfriend NEEDS to have sex all the time! If I'm tired or don't feel like it, he acts like a 5 year old throwing a fit! He makes me have so much anxiety about doing it, that I don't want to! What can I do? We always argue about this and it's getting annoying.
(by the way..we're both mid-20s and plan to get married)
- Bogdan:
What's the point of even being in a relationship if you can't get sex whenever you want it? What other reason could men possibly have for staying with one woman?
Stop being such a prude. - Stasiek:
Smart, smart, move planning on a marriage. It sounds like you two are completely compatible and perfect for a successful marriage.
Constant fighting is part of every healthy relationship, so there's nothing you need to do about your situation. - Piotr:
Simple, don't get married, stupid.
- Janek:
He's obviously very immature and definitely isn't ready for marriage.
Also, it sounds like the two of you are very sexually incompatible. I seriously doubt this relationship could last long-term.